PARTICULARS OF THE BOOK:
Pages: 298
Genre: Memoir/Nonfiction
Published by: Createspace
Available on Amazon
From the Author's Mouth :
I wrote “Final Approach” for my grandkids and family but had
no intention of actually publishing it until a friend read it and strongly
encouraged me to do that. The reaction
has been surprising and I’ve been taken aback by it.
So much was said about this first-of-a-kind
event in which three airline pilots were arrested for flying under the
influence and most of it was inaccurate.
Reporters and journalists, TV news anchors, and late night comics all
had their say and put their own personal twists on things as I sat, watched,
listened, and remained mute. I was
amazed at reporters I didn’t know who claimed to know what I was thinking as
though they had access to my innermost thoughts and how the public seemed to
accept, without question, the information they put out.
Clearly, the groundwork for sensationalism was part of the
scenario with an impaired flight crew at 35,000 feet and passengers in the
aircraft cabin. I understood and
accepted that and I never attempted to excuse or minimize what had taken place
– nor do I do that in my book.
Throughout the entire manuscript I take very clear and naked
responsibility for the event. Indeed,
I’ve done that my entire life, including my Marine Corps career and my time in
Vietnam.
Nothing excuses or mitigates what happened, not even my
alcoholism; and I’ve never hidden behind that.
This event destroyed and shredded me, reducing me to an
emotional shell, and I found myself thinking thoughts I had never before
believed possible – suicide. Hopelessness
can never be reduced to a lower plateau than when suicide becomes seductively
attractive and the desire to escape the pain and shame overwhelmingly outweighs
the desire to live.
From that near fatal outcome came a story of beauty and
redemption and one that I claim no personal credit for. I suited up and showed up, but I can take no
credit for anything other than that.
As the story unfolded I experienced the absolute best of
mankind…and the worst of it. We need love the most when we deserve it the
least and I’ve never forgotten that as I devote a lot of my time to helping
those who are suffering as I once was.
In front of me as I write this is a statement that says, “I
believe life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it” and that has
become one of my credos as a result of what happened to me.
I need others in my life and that’s a gift of humility,
something I once viewed more as a character flaw than asset. I learned about humility through another form
of the word – humiliation.
What began as the most devastating experience in my life, and
one that nearly ended my life, has evolved into the greatest positive thing
that could ever have happened to me. In
my Native culture we often speak of ‘Grandfather’ or ‘Creator’ and I use those
terms as well as the God I knew growing up.
Whatever He does and however He does it will never be something I can
understand, but I do know that some power
somewhere steered the outcome of this story and I had nothing to do with
it.
I went from pilot to pariah, yet in an astonishing turn of
events I ended my career as a 747 captain for the same airline I’d so horribly
shamed and embarrassed; and I never fought or resisted my termination. I went from prison to Presidential Pardon and
even I, who was there every moment and lived every day of this, cannot possibly
understand how it all occurred.
Blue skies,
Lyle Prouse
About the Author:
Lyle Prouse was born in Wichita, Kansas in 1938. He is part
Comanche and grew up in an alcoholic home in a World War II housing project. He
was active in his Native American community. After graduating from High School
in Wichita, Lyle joined the Marines as a private but made the rare transition
from enlisted to officer grade and ultimately Captain, a jet fighter pilot
flying combat missions in Vietnam.
About the Book :
He
continues to work with all the major airlines in their alcohol programs. He is also
active in his Native American community, and he provides hope to those
struggling with the disease of alcoholism, no matter who they are or where they
are.
The Dame's Review :
"Final Approach" is the story of a man who took his very successful life and got it caught up in the insidious death noll of alcoholism. Like so many before and after Lyle Prouse have done, we learn the story of how a seemingly innocent drink can take a strong, and brave, and caring man down to the dregs of himself. How boose can break his will, his heart and his morality to such a point he would risk the very lives of those he is committed to protect flying on a national airline. He would become a would-be murderer in the air...one just waiting for the small slip greased by too much drink, to happen. One mechanical slip that would send his planeload of passengers crashing to their deaths.
I was drawn to "Final Approach" out of a tremendous curiosity having been very familiar with the pilot and incidents described via the national news and other print coverage. I wanted to see how Mr. Prouse would handle himself in his time of confession and "making amends."
From the earliest of paragraphs, I got the sense that he was making the "I didn't really know I'd had that much to drink" excuse, and that he set about to tell the story of how alcohol (personified...made into a sort of boogie man of its own) was the villian. He had become entrapped by the villian alcohol and it was unbeknownst to him how it had taken over and caused this problem in his flight schedule. That was a disappointment from the get-go for me. I'm the mother of a recovering alcoholic (now over 25 years sober) and I believe honesty is the only way out and into true sobriety. So, to see an excuse right up front and center worried me about the way the book started. Accepting personal responsibility is the first of the ways of getting sober for life.
However, as the book progresses, you can see that Lyle Prouse was greatly embarrassed and devastated by his injury to himself, his potential harm to others, and his loss of his job. It was enough to get him set straight and through a series of struggles, to find him working out his sobriety and then reaching out to others with his same issues.
Finally, as the book comes to a close, Mr. Prouse expresses his genuine feelings of wanting to be a resource to others, and of wanting to help provide insight into the alcohol and drugs that are hidden and are acutely dangerous situations in the airline industry. I felt this continued work on his own sobriety, and his continued means of reaching out were the keys to his health and well-being...and to the cause for good in so many other's lives.
I found the book fascinating in detail, and well written as a memoir/"tell-all." It's a significant story about alcohol and airline pilots and the airline's work with them. Prouse is a fine writer. That so many in the airline hierarchy would work with him to help him turn his life around and give him another outlet for good was most heartwarming.
A good read for men and women, alike. Probably don't want to read it on a plane trip! :]
3.5 stars Deborah/TheBookishDame
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